Not really. Sure, wedding rules regarding what to wear are more relaxed than ever these days, so much so in fact that wearing black to a wedding is considered OK and that many brides don’t wear white.
However, to be on the safe side, and since white is still considered such a classic choice for the bride, it’s best to avoid wearing white to a wedding unless you are the bride.
The main concern is not just overshadowing the bride – it’s the possibility that someone is going to mistakenly assume that you are the bride. Many brides, especially if they are older or if it’s not their first marriage, choose a white pantsuit or a very simple white dress rather than an elaborate bridal gown.
This means that if you wear a white outfit, you could be mistaken by someone as the bride, which is probably one of the most awkward situations that can happen in a wedding!
To save yourself and the bride some major embarrassment, do consider wearing a color other than white to a wedding. Of course, you can still wear an outfit that has SOME white in it, such as the lovely dress (found at shopbop.com) pictured above.
Traditionally, black was not an option when it came to the wedding guests. Black used to be associated with mourning and so deemed as highly inappropriate for a joyous occasion such as a wedding.
However, just like countless other fashion rules (“no white after labor day” comes to mind), the “never wear black to a wedding” rule has become outdated.
Black is a classic. It is chic, slimming and elegant and can be worn with anything and for any occasion. While your grandmother may still insist that “black is for funerals,” for the vast majority of people, wearing black has nothing to do with mourning.
A little black dress is a wonderful option for almost any occasion, and a wedding is no exception. In fact, these days even the bridesmaids sometimes wear black – it creates a nice contrast to the bride’s white wedding gown.
Of course, you can accessorize your black outfit with colorful accessories such as a wrap, shoes or a handbag. It’s a great way to make sure your outfit looks joyful rather than mournful. Wearing a black dress with colorful details (such as the dress above from Bluefly.com) is another option.
If you’re still worried about offending the bride, just call her to ask if she objects to people wearing black to her wedding. Chances are, she wouldn’t mind at all.